Respect is earned, and if people don’t respect you, they shouldn’t receive any respect in return. Honestly, it’s as simple as that.
However, if you strive to earn the respect from those around you, you should stop doing things that invite disrespect.
Below are five powerful changes that can completely reshape how others perceive and relate to you.
1. Stop giving excessive explanations
When it comes to the decisions we make during our lifetime, we don’t owe everyone a justification. Because if we feel like we need to explain our choices, give countless of arguments, and feel the urge to defend our decisions, we unintentionally send the message that we need other people’s approval.
When we over-explain ourselves, we don’t sound as thoughtful or reasonable. On the contrary, it feels like we are insecure.
According to research, over-justifying ourselves can make us seem less confident, knowledgeable, and reliable.
So, if someone has no real reason to demand an explanation regarding our decisions, a simple response like “because I decided to” is enough. Answering in such manner may feel awkward initially, but it would definitely change the dynamic entirely.
2. Learn to use silence
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